Sending mail to your campers while they are away is something we strongly encourage parents to do. Sometimes a letter from home can be just what your child needs to kick that little bit of homesickness, and go on enjoying their day. But often, we talk to parents that aren’t quite sure what to write in their letters. Here’s step-by-step guide on how to write the best camp letters ever.

So, let’s start with what not to do:

Dear Johnny,

How is camp?

I miss you more than words can describe. Yesterday, I sat around and thought about what we might be doing if you were not at camp. Your dog, Pluto, sat on your bed and cried all day. Your younger brother thinks you’re never coming back, and he’s devastated. I hope you’re eating the food, although I know it isn’t as good as mine. I just miss you so much!

Hope you have a great week.

Love,
Mom

P.S. Your fish died. I’m sorry.

I know what you’re thinking – that seems a little extreme…but you would be surprised. Letters that discuss how much you miss your camper can make them feel guilty or sad, and it’s best to save any bad news (like a pet dying) for when your camper gets home.

What can you write about?

  • Tell your camper what you’ve been doing, and keep it fun. Maybe your child’s time at camp inspired you, so you went on a hike – tell them! I bet they will think about you on their next hike.
  • Ask a question or two – but not ten. Want to know what activity is their favorite? Ask! Have they made friends? Ask! But don’t overwhelm them with questions. They will see through your curiosity and think you’re worried.
  • Say you miss them, but you know they are having a great time and you can’t wait to hear their stories.
  • Give an update on everyone else in the family – let your child know everyone is doing okay.
  • Write a letter from a family pet, or, depending on your child’s age, their favorite stuffed animal that didn’t make the trip to camp.

Once your letter is written, be sure you address it correctly – like this:

Camper’s Name
Camp Session (example: A, B, BC – look at your registration for the letter)
Camp Fire Camp El Tesoro
7710 Fall Creek Hwy.
Granbury, TX 76049

Timing the delivery of your mail can be hard. If you want your child to have something to open on the first day, you’ll need to send your letter before you drop them off. If sending snail-mail isn’t your thing, you can pre-write letters and (secretly) drop them off at check-in on Sunday. Label each letter for the day of the week, and we will deliver them during lunch. And you can always send a Camp Note through our one-way email system (check your confirmation email for a link!), they are printed and delivered to campers each day after lunch.

Don’t be afraid to get creative! Sketch a cute picture on the envelope, include a riddle or game in your letter, or send a picture of your family. When in doubt, keep your tone light and up-beat. And don’t be disappointed if your child doesn’t write back – they are busying making life-long friends, building skills, and having the time of their life.